We-Vibe: Premium Sex Toys for a Premium Experience! — My Sex Toy Finder
I have been a fan of We-Vibe products for years. I purchased my first We-Vibe vibrator a decade ago. At the time, I was in graduate school, and it was a big financial commitment to buy a premium sex toy. Once it arrived and I started using it, I found that the difference between your average vibrator and a We-Vibe justified the price! Since then, I have added We-Vibe couples vibrators, remote-control toys, cock rings, and more.
If you are new to We-Vibe toys, I suggest you start with the We-Vibe Touch.
This little cutie is a small clit vibrator. It’s just under two inches long and three inches wide with a cradle for your clit on one end. It’s made of non-porous silicone and comes in purple. The scoop inversion on the one end hugs your clit while the entire toy fits comfortably between your labia lips.
I like this toy because I need a lot of clit stimulation to climax most of the time. Like many folks with vaginas, vaginal stimulation alone rarely gets me to orgasm. The We-Vibe Touch is helpful for both masturbation and couples play.
Now that I have had this toy for a while, it has become a go-to for self-pleasure. I love clit stimulation during masturbation, and often this is my sole focus of a session (especially a quickie). The We-Vibe Touch is great for this because it holds a charge, it can be used for up to two hours of play before needing a recharge, and its compact size means it easily fits in my bedside drawer.
To get the most of this toy, I use a bit of lube and then power it up. I slip it between my labia lips, onto my clit, and start off slowly. The toy has eight different vibration settings. It’s great to have options! Another nice feature is that this toy is waterproof, so I often take it into the shower with me. Working from home, it’s nice to have some truly fun private time in the bath.
The toy is easy to maintain. After use, I use a bit of warm, soapy water and then rinse and let dry. After three or four uses, I will recharge it, so it is always ready to please me.
Now that I have early-onset arthritis, this toy has been a lifesaver! There are plenty of days where my hands are achy and weak. This toy allows me to masturbate the way I enjoy without triggering the pain in my hands. This is a definite must if you enjoy clit stimulation and have any hand limitations!
We-Vibe offers a second clit stimulator called the We-Vibe Melt.
This is an air-powered toy. I will be honest, when I read the initial website description, it “uses subtle changes in air pressure- essentially sucking and blowing on your clit — for touchless stimulation,” I did not have the sexiest of images come into my brain. What I pictured is a toy equivalent of someone blowing on a spoonful of soup. This made me skeptical about the amount of stimulation which could be achieved by this vibrator.
Because the toy was produced by We-Vibe and I am a big fan of clit stimulation, I decided to give it a try. I am so happy I went with my gut! This vibrator is an amazing and unique toy. It’s just over 5 inches long and an inch and a half wide. It’s made of silicone and comes with a USB magnetic charger. It can be used solo or with a partner.
I strongly recommend using this with a partner. I purchased this at a time I was dating a woman. It became one of the toys we regularly incorporated into our sex lives. I found it worked best when accompanying strap-on play. My partner would harness up, we would sandwich the We-Vibe Touch between my lower lips, and she would start thrusting. It was so good; we got more than one complaint from the neighbors in the next apartment for being a little too loud. No shame in my game here!
This is the coolest toy! The air “sucking and blowing” is the closest thing to great oral sex I have experienced with a toy. The Touch has 12 levels of intensity, which allows a great range of stimulation. Another bonus is that this toy works with the We-Vibe app.
This toy has remained in my repertoire of sex toys through a range of partners, both male and female. It works with all gender combos as a couple’s vibrator for all sorts of sexual play. For me, using it along with vaginal stimulation from a partner (be it dildo or dick) guarantees I climax every time, often several times in a session. The only caution is to use it when neighbors are not in earshot!
I bought the We-Vibe Tango to make my work life more tolerable.
Before I left the 9 to 5 for the great life of sex writing, I was like many folks: toiling away in front of a computer, dealing with passive-aggressive co-workers, and sitting in endless boring meetings. When We-Vibe came out with the Tango, I bought it as an impulse by one day. This cute vibe is just three inches long and half an inch wide. It looks like a tube of lipstick, but it is so much more fun.
It has added perks. It’s small and comes with a storage bag, and is made of durable plastic so that it can roll around in your purse without getting damaged. It has a USB charger, and I will admit, I have used my portable phone battery charger to power up this vibe on my commute.
It is very quiet, so using it in my office with the door closed never proved to be an issue with colleagues or my secretary hearing it. I would just close my blinds, shut the door, and slip the Tango vibrator down into my panties. Five minutes later and a quick trip to the ladies’ room to wash my hands, and I was much more pleasant for a long afternoon meeting. Personally, if more people had a private way of masturbating at the office, I think the world would be a more pleasant place.
This “travel-sized” vibe (I would call it fun-sized!) was a great purchase. It lives in my work bag, so even now, when I am at a conference or out teaching all day, I have the option for a quickie. It’s easy to wash, dry, charge, and go with this vibrator. Seriously, it makes the 2:30 meetings with the client you hate so much more tolerable!
WHEN WE-VIBE INTRODUCED THE DESIGN SHARED BY THE MATCH COUPLES MASSAGER AND THE CHORUS COUPLES MASSAGER, IT WAS A MAJOR INNOVATION IN THE SEX TOY WORLD.
Prior to these toys, most couples vibrators were either cock-ring style, or it was a small vibrator used on the clit of one partner. The Match Couples Massager and Chorus Couples Massager are designed to fit inside a vagina AND rest on the outside between the labia and stimulate the clit. Both can be worn during insertive vaginal sex.
The vibrator is a “U” shape. The Match Couples Massager has a limited amount of give. While it will fit snuggly inside the vagina with the larger “arm” resting on the clit, it does not fit all bodies. The Chorus Couples Massager has adjustable points for both arms allowing for a greater range in the curve of the “C” shape. This means it fits nearly all bodies.
Both vibrators are made mostly of silicone and some ABV plastic in the remote. The Bluetooth connection the remote runs on allows you to adjust the vibrator even when it is sandwiched between you and your partner.
The Chorus Couples vibrator has a great feature. We-Vibe calls it the ‘Touch-Sense” control. A simple name for an incredible technology. This vibrator changes intensity and speed when you squeeze it! Simply clench your Kegel muscles to increase the vibration, relax, and the vibration slows and becomes more gentle.
What more could you need in a couples massager? Maybe it could make you both a sandwich afterward, but that is asking a lot.
I splurged and got the Chorus Couples Massager for my current partner and me. My first impression was that it was small. The insertable arm is just under two inches long, and the larger outside arm measures just over two inches. It comes with a little charging stand and a USB charger. I plugged it in and charged it up. This took less than an hour because it was shipped with a partial charge. It takes about 90 minutes to charge a fully drained vibrator.
I paired it with the We-Vibe app, which is simple to use. I lubed up both arms and positioned the toy inside of me and on my clit.
I used the app to try the ten different vibration modes. I suggest you start slow and work up. I was surprised by the amount of power this toy packs. Depending on how much stimulation you enjoy, you will find a mode that works for you. The process of finding the best model for you is enjoyable.
I decided to see if the Touch Sense control really worked. True to We-Vibe toys, this new control delivers! It changes the intensity of the stimulation as you clench and release your Kegel muscles. I did not buy this toy to improve my Kegel workouts, but it has become a part of my Kegel exercises. There is something satisfying about getting immediate and pleasurable feedback when I am working on these muscles. Additionally, finishing any workout with an orgasm inspires me to work out more often.
I was excited to try it with my partner. The toy description says you can wear the vibrator while out on a date. After I had finished my first solo expedition with the massager, I left it in and tried to do a few things around the house. Indeed, the toy stays in place and is comfortable to wear while walking or sitting.
When my partner returned from his day, I was wearing the Chorus massager. I greeted him, wearing just an apron, and holding a drink. I know this sounds cliché, but the the1950s sexy housewife thing really turns him on.
I started up the vibrator using my phone and showed him how to control it. We started making out there in the kitchen, and he ramped up the vibrations to the point I was begging him to be inside of me. He bent me over the counter and entered me.
The additional width of the toy made him a very snug fit inside my lady bits, which was highly pleasurable for both of us. Additionally, when he was entering me from behind, his balls would tap the arm outside on my clit. The vibrations were enjoyable for him as well as me.
I tried squeezing and relaxing as he thrust inside of me. This led me to climax hard as he thrust deep inside me. The vibrator increased in intensity as my walls squeezed and released during orgasm. This provided enough stimulation to push him into a powerful climax.
We have incorporated this toy into many of our sexy time sessions. The vibrator is waterproof, so we have tried it out in the hot tub. For me, hot tub sex was never particularly enjoyable. The positioning in the tub meant that my clit was often under-stimulated, and I never climaxed. Adding the We-Vibe Chorus vibrator to hot tub sexy time has changed my opinion about sex here. The vibrations get me very worked up, and the clit stimulation during penetration has consistently led to powerful orgasms.
The toy is easy to clean and maintain. When you are done, simply wash with warm, soapy water or sex toy cleaner and let dry. Charge on the charging stand as needed. I can vouch that even with extensive use, this toy holds up.
I have not personally tried the We-Vibe Couples Massager. I decided on the Chorus vibrator specifically because it has adjustable arms. My clit is located almost two inches from my vaginal opening. This is a greater distance between the two than most women have. I had doubts about the fit of the Match Couples vibrator for me. The We-Vibe Chorus fits me well. However, after I had such a great experience with the Chorus Massager, I suggested it to a friend. She tried the Match Couples Massager and reported the same excellent results I experienced. Depending on your personal body, one of the two (and perhaps both) will work for you.
A while back, I had a male partner who really enjoyed cock rings. I had not used them with a partner before. Most cock rings are designed to help the wearer maintain a longer and harder erection.
I wanted to get him something a bit special and unique, so I picked out the We-Vibe Pivot Vibrating Ring.
The Pivot Ring is a super-deluxe cock ring that vibrates. I had tried cheaper versions you can pick up at drug stores. Those were underwhelming and not well made. The We-Vibe Pivot is just the opposite: it is well made, it provides substantial vibrations, and it holds up. This is a great option for partners into cock rings.
The Pivot Vibrating Cock Ring is made of stretchy body-safe silicone. It is an inch and a quarter wide and almost three inches long. It comes with a USB charger and has ten different vibrating modes.
The ring fits around the shaft and provides a snug fit. This keeps more blood in the shaft, leading to a longer, harder erection. For a partner with erectile dysfunction issues, diabetes, or who is trans and the hormones are making it difficult to maintain an erection, I strongly recommend the We-Vibe Pivot.
We charged up this toy and paired it with the We-Vibe app. I slipped it on his shaft when he was sporting a semi-chub and started to suck him off. He got rock hard and turned on the vibrations with the phone. It was a new sensation to feel the vibrations in his dick while I sucked on the shaft. While not unpleasant, it took a minute for me to get used to the sensation. He, on the other hand, was loving it!
I climbed on top of him and started to ride cowgirl-style. He increased the vibrations of the ring. The added vibrations on my clit increased my pleasure as well. The Pivot Vibration Ring allowed him to maintain a longer than average erection. Couple that with the vibrations from the ring, and I was able to climax while riding him.
The ring is easy to clean and maintain. Like other We-Vibe sex toys, you wash with warm, soapy water or toy cleaner, let dry, and recharge as necessary.
I really enjoyed the added vibrations while riding cowgirl-style, so I bought a new Pivot cock ring for my current partner a few months ago. He is significantly larger than the average man. His penis is more than seven inches in circumference when fully erect. This made the Pivot uncomfortable. Most men have a bit narrower shaft, and the Pivot Ring will fit comfortably. However, if you have an especially large penis, you may want to double-check sizing.
The Pivot Ring provided the extra support to help a partner with erectile stability (he could get hard but had difficulty remaining erect). He really enjoyed the vibrations, and they helped me achieve orgasm as well. This ring will be great for many people.
I enjoy butt plugs. True to form, We-Vibe has created a great vibrating butt plug, the Ditto.
When it comes to things you put in your bum, the number one rule is that they must have a base wider than the widest insertable part. Your butt is a greedy little thing, and when aroused, will open and try and suck in everything it can! We-Vibe came up with a brilliant solution to this. Their Ditto butt plug is shaped kind of like a “J.” There is a thin, insertable plug and a base which is designed to tuck nicely between your butt cheeks. This makes it comfortable to wear for an extended period of time, to walk around with, and to sit down while wearing. I cannot overstate how fantastic it is to find a butt plug that fits like this!
The Ditto is a great size for beginners. It is three inches long and just 1.25 inches wide at the widest part on the insertable side. Think of it like a thick index finger. It has 10 built-in vibration modes, and you can use the We-Vibe app to create even more vibrations. It’s waterproof and recharges with a USB cord, which is included.
Since I am your modern-day pervert (and proud of it), I bought this toy for use on dates to my local dungeon. It is so much fun to use this for a night out. The first time I tried it, I started with an anal douche (which is a great way to prep for anal play) and then used some lube and inserted the toy which had been paired with the We-Vibe app. I tucked the base between my cheeks, and it fits comfortably.
I dressed in my corset and skirt and headed out for my play night. My partner started the vibrations going while we were still on the drive to the dungeon. I was the passenger, which was important for safety reasons. The vibrations got me twitching and desperate to touch myself.
When we arrived, he continued to play with the vibrations on his phone, increasing and decreasing them as I visited with friends. He took great delight in watching me try not to give away that I was on the edge of orgasm as I held conversations with people.
When he was ready to play, he tied me to the St. Andrew’s Cross and turned up the vibration. I was dripping wet with excitement. As he teased my nipples and flogged me, I tried not to climax right there. Finally, he turned up the vibrations to ten, and I came right there on the cross.
The We-Vibe Ditto is easy to maintain. It fits comfortably for extended use and has enough power to really bring on the pleasure. It’s a great size for beginners or folks looking for a comfortable and effective butt plug.